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I delivered this eulogy at my dad’s memorial on March 4 in Doylestown, Penn:

The last phone call from my father came on the day before he died.

He had left a voice message stressing that I needed to call back because he had “a question.”

I called. He asked if my wife had any interest in tickets to the St. Patrick’s Day parade. I responded, tersely, “why am I being asked this? Ask her.”

And with that, I advanced the conversation, knowing that was not why he really reached out. There were usually two reasons for his calls. So I set myself up and asked “What else is new?”

First, he wanted to know what his two grandkids were doing. The little boy was playing Angry Birds on the iPhone. The girl was playing with her princess toys – which he gave her a few weeks earlier.

Second, he wanted to make a political point.

“The Republicans in Wisconsin are bastards.”

After a few minutes of banter, we left it that he would call again the next day – and that I should watch what was happening in Ohio, Indiana and a few other states, because the Republicans were out to destroy the middle class and that unions were being scapegoated. Teachers, elevator operators and bricklayers were not the people who got us in this mess, and the middle class was being pitted against each other.

Of course we never had that follow-up call. His heart finally gave out for good.

But the fight he believed in lives on through the Doylestown Democrats, an organization he fell in love with. I heard about the organization all the time. He beamed about his role, and the group’s purpose. And like with everything he ever involved himself with, he cared. Deeply. Heck, I never saw him speechless, but after Election Day last November, when the vote didn’t go the way of the Democrats, I didn’t hear from him for two days. My wife, at one point, asked “is your dad ok? Someone should check on him.”

It took him about 48 hours to bounce back from the crushing local losses to start talking about the importance of 2012. And while he won’t physically be here to help, he’s watching. May President Obama win Pennsylvania, and the election, again. And may Rick Santorum go away. Oh, how he didn’t like that guy. Really, who could?

He also lives on through his family, even if our cell phones ring a little less. Ok, a lot less. I’ll keep him close, and honor him in my own way. Last year, three generations of us went to Citizens Bank Park to see a Phillies game. My dad, brother, my son Donovan, and me all went to South Philly. I stoically watched the game, while my dad doted on Donovan’s every move – even when my little boy, in the spirit of Brotherly Love, yelled to everyone’s delight “If you root for the Braves, I’ll cut your brains out.” Oh how he laughed at that. Confession – so did I.

I had planned to go again this June – the whole gang again. Donovan and I are still going. And everywhere we turn, dad will be there, because we were there, and memories, unlike the human body, don’t die. Donovan still talks about last year’s trip – and how Uncle Jeffrey and Grandpa helped him eat chicken fingers and saw the Phanatic imitate Lady GaGa.

I think of dad’s passing and think of the good times, especially those he spent with my kids – because it took me having children to understand how important I was to my parents. I think that’s the way it usually works. So, I’ll just give thanks to having two. And I’m grateful he met them both. They’re better off for it.


Oh, and dad, I agree, “the Republicans in Wisconsin are bastards.”

Thomas Reich’s obit, courtesy of Doylestown Patch.


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stethoscopeA little more than four years ago, Long Island Business News conducted a health care summit and some of the top voices on Long Island were on hand. Michael Dowling, who runs North Shore-LIJ was there, as was Rep. Steve Israel, the Democrat who happens to be my representative.

I remember talking to Israel in a stairway and asking him if he had any idea on how to make health care more affordable. He said the United States should allow cheaper drugs from Canada into the country and have government pitch in to help small businesses pay for health care.

Yesterday, while in Connecticut I spoke to a small business owner who began to talk about how difficult the economy was. He also said he doesn’t offer health benefits because he flat-out can’t afford to.

Then today the New York Times editorial was on the possibility of a national health care system.

There are 46 million Americans without health insurance and as the job market shrinks, that number could easily go up. And many people who are covered still can’t afford to pay for their medicine.

But why is the health care debate coming to a head now? Yes, sure, some of it has to do with having a Democratic president and a Democratic Congress. But it could be more than that. Here’s an interesting post by John Sinibaldi, who writes for the Health Care Blog.

He writes:

It isn’t the employees of government (local, county, state or federal) who will demand immediate change. It isn’t the employees of institutional companies (the Motorolas, GEs, Microsofts of the country) who will demand change. It isn’t those on Medicare or Medicaid or the VA who will demand change. It isn’t the wealthy. It isn’t the poor.

He continues by saying the middle class can no longer afford their health care. By the way, Sinibaldi is a health insurance agent who concludes by writing “Let’s see what the president and Congress come up with, and try to work with it – because it is inevitable that the reforms will be major, because we’ve waited too long to save our current system as we know it.”

Good for Sinibaldi, because getting cancer is bad enough. Going broke fighting it is  reprehensible.

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